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Showing my Ugly (a Golf Story)
When humans first starting chucking golf balls around for fun, golf balls looked quite different than they do today. They were shiny and...
Carrie Helmers
Mar 29, 20223 min read


Use Envy to Empower Yourself
“Comparison is the thief of joy.” - Theodore Roosevelt About 10 years ago I met a girl that I’ll call Sarah. Sarah was a pretty, sweet,...
Carrie Helmers
Feb 28, 20203 min read


Life Lie #2: “I Have to Find the Right Partner to Be Complete”
Jerry Maguire stood disheveled and slightly desperate in his estranged wife, Dorothy’s living room. He crestfallenly set down his...
Carrie Helmers
Feb 19, 20196 min read


I Wasn't Attacked, But If I Was, Would It Have Been My Fault?
I don’t know if Brett Kavanaugh attacked Christine Blasey Ford in the summer of 1982 – but I know this: The culture in which this...
Carrie Helmers
Sep 28, 20188 min read


Who are YOU to Talk? Who are THEY to Act?
“Who does she think she is, anyway?” you hear a friend saying. “She’s not so special. Her marriage is failing/her career is in...
Carrie Helmers
Feb 22, 20184 min read


Stop Praising Me for Being Skinny
I’ve gotten more compliments over weight loss than anything else I’ve ever done in my life. Never mind the times in my life that I’ve...
Carrie Helmers
Jan 30, 20185 min read


How a Broken, Desperate Alcoholic Can Save the World
When I was a little girl I wanted to change the world. I wanted to make the world a better place. I dreamed of getting a job for Make a...
Carrie Helmers
Jan 23, 20184 min read


Thank You, Failure, Heartbreak and Pain
When we think of gratitude we often gravitate toward giving thanks to the people and things that have made our lives better – usually the...
Carrie Helmers
Nov 22, 20175 min read


What if my Son Kinda-Sorta Sucks at Sports?
“I LOVE basketball,” The Professor grandly announced from the confines of his car seat. “I want to basketball again, Mommy! Not just at...
Carrie Helmers
Sep 27, 20176 min read


10 Surprising Lessons from 6 Months of Sobriety
It has been exactly six months since I have had a sip of alcohol. I started drinking in college to be cool and to be happy. I cut...
Carrie Helmers
Apr 7, 20167 min read


Who Deserves a Splurge?
“Go Ahead – Buy it! You Deserve it!” When is a splurge worth it? And when is a splurge just an unnecessary extravagance? I’m writing this...
Carrie Helmers
Dec 5, 20154 min read


How Gratitude Changed My Life
My most desperate moment of thankgiving didn’t happen in November. It was a winter evening in 2003, maybe February or March, with the...
Carrie Helmers
Nov 25, 20155 min read


2 Words That Instantly Invalidate
Seeing my firstborn son smile for the first time was one of moments in my life I will never forget. It filled me with indescribable awe...
Carrie Helmers
Oct 22, 20154 min read


Everyone Has a Story
I am an ordinary girl. I grew up in a typical suburban house with two brothers, a mom and a dad, a dog or two and a few hamsters. I went...
Carrie Helmers
Oct 8, 20154 min read


What if I was Good Enough?
I have always wanted to be a good girl. It started before I can remember, and it’s still going on today, as I edge ever closer to 40. ...
Carrie Helmers
Oct 6, 20155 min read
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