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Showing my Ugly (a Golf Story)
When humans first starting chucking golf balls around for fun, golf balls looked quite different than they do today. They were shiny and...
Carrie Helmers
Mar 29, 20223 min read


Locker Room Talk Worth Repeating
Locker room talk has been getting a pretty bad rap lately, so that’s why I was a bit surprised when I got an unexpected gift from a few...
Carrie Helmers
Feb 4, 20194 min read


"If You Care So Much, Why Don't YOU Take the Immigrants In?"
I’ve been watching and listening carefully the past few weeks as debate over immigration in America has heated up and caught afire. I’ve...
Carrie Helmers
Jun 27, 20184 min read


Who are YOU to Talk? Who are THEY to Act?
“Who does she think she is, anyway?” you hear a friend saying. “She’s not so special. Her marriage is failing/her career is in...
Carrie Helmers
Feb 22, 20184 min read


I'm Right and I Can Prove It!
I have a lengthy set of notes stored in my iPhone that I use specifically to keep track of facts that I can use in fictitious arguments...
Carrie Helmers
Dec 8, 20175 min read


Maybe the Key to Success is Closing Our Mouths
Have you ever wondered why Oprah is so rich and successful? Oprah Winfrey is known around the world as a thought leader and brilliant...
Carrie Helmers
Dec 4, 20173 min read


Thank You, Failure, Heartbreak and Pain
When we think of gratitude we often gravitate toward giving thanks to the people and things that have made our lives better – usually the...
Carrie Helmers
Nov 22, 20175 min read


Is Control a Good Thing?
“Do you like where you keep your checkbook?” I asked my husband as I idly stirred some pasta on the stove. “I’m going to organize the...
Carrie Helmers
Aug 29, 20174 min read


What Loving My Kids Has Done for Me
I always assumed that having kids would teach me how to love. I just never imagined that parenthood would teach me how to love not just...
Carrie Helmers
Aug 24, 20174 min read


Why I'm Embarrassed of My Pantry
I have a confession to make. When it comes to feeling good enough in my life, a big portion of my feeling of self-worth has always been...
Carrie Helmers
Jan 7, 20164 min read


When Holidays Aren't Jolly
When I was single (a time that spanned almost three decades), I had many opportunities to spend Christmas and New Year’s Eve (not to...
Carrie Helmers
Dec 21, 20154 min read


Time to Plug Myself In
It was 12:45 a.m., and my husband, Lancelot, and I were stuck in the Charlotte airport. Our flight to Dayton had been cancelled and we...
Carrie Helmers
Dec 17, 20154 min read


How Gratitude Changed My Life
My most desperate moment of thankgiving didn’t happen in November. It was a winter evening in 2003, maybe February or March, with the...
Carrie Helmers
Nov 25, 20155 min read


Is People-Pleasing a Fault?
I was recently reading a book by Gary Zukav, “Soul to Soul,” and I came across a few interesting passages about people-pleasing. In the...
Carrie Helmers
Nov 19, 20153 min read


When No Place is Safe
Where should we go, and what should we do, when everything in our world feels unsafe? I can’t think of a single place in the world that...
Carrie Helmers
Nov 16, 20154 min read


The Bad Guy Drill
I was holding my five-year-old son’s hand in his school’s parking lot yesterday afternoon when he casually pointed to the sidewalk....
Carrie Helmers
Nov 3, 20153 min read
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