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Slave to my Stuff
I’ve been moved to tears seeing the devastation Hurricanes Harvey and Irma have caused in this country these last couple weeks, as I know...
Carrie Helmers
Sep 14, 20175 min read


Is Control a Good Thing?
“Do you like where you keep your checkbook?” I asked my husband as I idly stirred some pasta on the stove. “I’m going to organize the...
Carrie Helmers
Aug 29, 20174 min read


What Loving My Kids Has Done for Me
I always assumed that having kids would teach me how to love. I just never imagined that parenthood would teach me how to love not just...
Carrie Helmers
Aug 24, 20174 min read


My Health is MY Responsibility
Are you sick and tired of the seemingly never-ending debate about healthcare in America? I sure am! For years, I’ve been following the...
Carrie Helmers
Aug 3, 20173 min read


10 Surprising Lessons from 6 Months of Sobriety
It has been exactly six months since I have had a sip of alcohol. I started drinking in college to be cool and to be happy. I cut...
Carrie Helmers
Apr 7, 20167 min read


Rocky Horror Dinner Show
It’s Monday night. After an hour and a half of chopping, boiling and grilling (spaced in between missing-toy-train-reconnaissance...
Carrie Helmers
Jan 5, 20164 min read


1 Rule for the Most Productive Calendar Ever
I have a new rule for time management in 2016, and it’s a rule I plan to follow for the foreseeable future (or maybe even forever). This...
Carrie Helmers
Dec 30, 20154 min read


When Holidays Aren't Jolly
When I was single (a time that spanned almost three decades), I had many opportunities to spend Christmas and New Year’s Eve (not to...
Carrie Helmers
Dec 21, 20154 min read


Time to Plug Myself In
It was 12:45 a.m., and my husband, Lancelot, and I were stuck in the Charlotte airport. Our flight to Dayton had been cancelled and we...
Carrie Helmers
Dec 17, 20154 min read


Four Steps Ahead
I’m a planner. I’m a planner by nature, by necessity and even by profession, having planned and executed several fundraisers and events...
Carrie Helmers
Dec 14, 20154 min read


How Gratitude Changed My Life
My most desperate moment of thankgiving didn’t happen in November. It was a winter evening in 2003, maybe February or March, with the...
Carrie Helmers
Nov 25, 20155 min read


Is People-Pleasing a Fault?
I was recently reading a book by Gary Zukav, “Soul to Soul,” and I came across a few interesting passages about people-pleasing. In the...
Carrie Helmers
Nov 19, 20153 min read


When No Place is Safe
Where should we go, and what should we do, when everything in our world feels unsafe? I can’t think of a single place in the world that...
Carrie Helmers
Nov 16, 20154 min read


Be Interested, Not Interesting
I’ve spent a great deal of my life trying to be an interesting person. When I catch up with old friends or relatives I haven’t seen in a...
Carrie Helmers
Nov 5, 20153 min read


The Bad Guy Drill
I was holding my five-year-old son’s hand in his school’s parking lot yesterday afternoon when he casually pointed to the sidewalk....
Carrie Helmers
Nov 3, 20153 min read


The Teeter Totter of Life
My life is not balanced. It’s never been balanced. I don’t know what the perfect mix of activities should be in order to achieve balance....
Carrie Helmers
Oct 28, 20153 min read


Who Are You?
If I were to ask you right this moment who you were, how would you answer? Linda Gray, actor of Sue Ellen Ewing fame and author of “The...
Carrie Helmers
Oct 25, 20152 min read


What Type of -ist Are You?
You know the classic question – is the glass half full, or half empty? Your answer determines your outlook on life. See the glass as half...
Carrie Helmers
Oct 20, 20153 min read


Take Him As He Is
Yesterday, my husband and I celebrated our 9th anniversary. Naturally, the occasion had me thinking about love. My husband (who I will...
Carrie Helmers
Oct 16, 20154 min read


Thank You! (I'm Not Sorry)
Hi, I’m Carrie, and I’m an apology-holic. It’s one of the most evident downsides of not feeling good enough. I’m constantly apologizing,...
Carrie Helmers
Oct 13, 20154 min read
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